Part 1: How I went from Hating to Loving Running

Running, I feel like you either love it or hate it. I know that I have been on both sides of this. I played with the idea of running in June of 2010, I really wanted to run the Newport Half and sadly the Newport Half came and went and I think I laced up my shoes once to go for a run (oops don’t judge). It wasn’t until April 2011 that I decided I needed something else in my life, I was feeling a bit lost and I needed something to focus my energy on. In New York you see two things, little dogs and runners. Since I couldn’t afford the little dog I went with running. Also around this time I found a blog called Walk to the Mailbox and immediately I was inspired to get out there and go. Gina, from Walk to the Mailbox, is part of the 50 States Marathon Club and she writes when she runs a Marathon. Every post has such passion in it that you want to love running as well.

I took myself to Jack Rabbit Sports and bought myself a good pair of running shoes. What shoe is my solemate you ask… Brooks Ravenna 2. I am not going to lie when I walked in there I wanted a pair of Mizuno’s just like Gina but what I quickly realized is, the shoe will pick you and Mizuno and me just weren’t meant to be (It would have been a very awkward relationship, so it was for the best). #1 if you are just starting to run get yourself a good pair of RUNNING shoes (I can not stress this enough).

Next I signed up for a race, because if you have nothing to work for and you’re just starting out you probably won’t work. I mean let’s be honest here, it is hard to start a routine, you wake up it’s cold outside and if you don’t have a goal well you might as well sleep in. I signed up for a 4 miler in Central Park. Sadly I never got to run it but we will get to the reason why shortly. #2 Sign up for a race, you decide what distance is appropriate for you and how much time you need to train BUT SIGN UP. Just do it!

Now starting and keeping a routine is the hardest part of running. I needed something that would keep me accountable. I had heard many good things about the Couch to 5K program. After reviewing a couple of the apps I ended up going with the Bridge to 10K program (the next one after the couch), I skipped the Couch to 5K because after looking at the workouts, the Bridge to 10K fit my fitness level the best. This was a great way to help me get started and I stuck to the program pretty religiously. I actually started getting excited about running. #3 Find a training program that works for you.

I started to get pretty serious about running and luckily for me I sat next to a runner at work. He had been running for 10 years so I was constantly asking him questions. One day he looked at me and said “you know you’re running a lot, you might want to get an EKG just to make sure your okay to run”. He had a friend that passed at a young age and he took his health very seriously. So I decided he was right and went into my general physician to get a check-up and an EKG. I honestly thought nothing could possible be wrong. Nope I was WRONG. My EKG was abnormal. He recommended that I go see a Cardiologist. So after telling my Mother, she immediately went into panic mode and said I couldn’t run anymore. Goodbye first race… When I went to see the Cardiologist, I found out I have something called Persistent Juvenile T Wave Pattern. Which is a pretty way of saying half my heart isn’t fully developed yet. Luckily for me that just meant I was young at heart and that I could start running again (thank you Doctor!). #4 Go to your doctor and get the okay to run, you never know unless you check. Better safe than sorry.

Because I had to take a little over a month off of running and I was a new runner, getting back into running was extremely hard. Running is not like riding a bike. Sadly, especially if you are new, you can’t just jump back in where you left off. So I had a hard time starting up again. One day I was reading Runners World (#4.5 Get a subscription to Runners World, it is one of the few magazines I read cover to cover ;) ) I came across an ad, Runners World was partnering with Foot Locker to have a coached running group for free! The answer to my prayers a free running group that would have coaches and we would be training to run a 10K. I was nervous, I did it completely alone but I made some amazing friends and I learned a lot from the coaches. I learned about speedwork and hill repeats (Damn you Cat Hill). I also completed my first 10K and it was an amazing feeling. #5 Find a running group (if they have coaches even better). Not only will you learn a lot but you will make some great friends. 

After my race I knew I wanted to do more, so I searched the web and I saw that Run Disney was having a Tinker Bell Half Marathon in January. It was right after my 25th Birthday and Autism Speaks was one of the participating charities. I wanted my first half to be for something that meant a lot to me so I knew this would be the perfect first half. I contacted Team Up at Autism Speaks and before I knew it I was all signed up to run my first half. About 10 minutes later I was like oh crap what have I gotten myself into, I sent out a tweet to some running friends and they told me that Run Less Run Faster was a great plan for someone who didn’t want to run more than 3 days a week. I bought the book and I started my training. #6 Push yourself, you will never know what you are truly capable of unless you push the limits. 

I started training alone because my running group had ended but I quickly got very lonely. I saw a lot of tweets about people who would run on the East Side (close to where I live) and I decided to see if I could join them one day. Luckily I met two great girls and one ended up becoming my sole sister (aka my running buddy that I run with all the time and probably see more than most people, I love you Katherine and I am not ashamed of who knows it ;) ). Having someone to run with on a regularly basis and push you when you don’t want to push yourself is amazing. I wouldn’t be half as good if it wasn’t for Katherine. # 7 Find a running buddy or in my case a sole sister.

So that pretty much brings us to now. I have finished my first half marathon (yah! go me) but I am sad to say I have not gotten the marathon bug yet (I still love my legs too much)… I am training for the NYC Half (which is in 6 weeks!) and I want to beat my time. I learned that speedwork and hills actually play a huge part in your training so I am going to actually do all of my speedwork and tempo runs. While training for my last race I didn’t really do much of that which was fine but now I want to get faster. #8 Don’t skip your speedwork and tempo runs

My last two tips when it comes to running is:

#9 Have fun and #10 Run for you

I would love to hear your stories on how you fell in love with running and if you have any tips please share! I feel like I can constantly learn more. And if you haven’t gotten a chance yet, I am having a raffle to raise money for Autism Speaks for the NYC Half, I am raffling off a necklace from Erica Sara Designs. She designs some amazing Race Bling and your support would mean the world to me.

Get out your Pixie Dust I am running in the Tinker Bell Half Marathon!!!

So I am very excited to announce that I will be running my FIRST half marathon with Team Up with Autism Speaks in celebration of my younger brother CJ. When my younger brother CJ was 18 months old, he was diagnosed with Austim, chrone’s, colitis and autoimmune disease. My step mother, Tamara has dedicated her life to finding a cure for him and thankfully through organizations like Autsim Speaks and the start of her own company Real Food Real Life, CJ has made tremendous progress. Today CJ is 15 years old and much healthier. He is continuing to grow and heal more everyday.

With my new love for running, I wanted to run for a reason (anything over 6 miles should be for a reason or a purpose in my mind), so when I saw that Autism Speaks was participating in the Inaugural Tinker Bell 1/2 Marathon, I decided that this would be the perfect race. I will be raising money in celebration of my brother CJ, my goal for this race is to raise $2,500. This will be my first half marathon ever, right after my 25th Birthday and at one of my brother’s favorite amusement parks, Disney Land in California!

I am doing a 17 week training program that starts on Monday, I am slightly nervous but very excited. I will be using the Run Less, Run Faster FIRST training plan. I am very excited to be using this plan, I got the recommendation from some of my biggest running inspirations, Gina from Walk to the Mailbox and  Katie, from Katie RUNS This. I will be updating you on my progress here on my blog and on my twitter @kymarie13.

If you feel like giving me an early birthday gifts ;) please feel free to donate now, you can check out my race page here. But honestly I am just happy I can share my journey with all of you and I hope to inspire other new runners. This is bound to be interesting considering I have never considered myself a runner. Below are some more pictures of my brother CJ, so excited to be running this race and it looks like CJ may be running the last half of the race with me!

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Things I learned from my 1st Race

1. Prepare/Pack the night before! With most races being in the early morning you don’t want to forget anything (cough cough, like I did). Lay out your outfit, pack a bag and make it your dedicated race bag (this may also give you a good reason to go out and buy a new bag), have a checklist of everything you will need for the race and make sure you have it all ready. My check list looks like the following:

My running mascot, Swift

  1. Road ID
  2. Sunglasses
  3. Chapstick
  4. Body Glide
  5. Gu
  6. iPod Shuffle
  7. iPod armband
  8. Headphones
  9. Heart-rate monitor
  10. Band-Aids
  11. Aleve
  12. My Mascot Swift
  13. Sweatshirt
  14. Sweatpants
  15. Protein Bar
  16. Water Bottle
  17. Extra Safety pins
Now I am sure this will change as I run more races but this is it for now.
2. Wear something that makes you feel pretty ( I got this tip from Gina, from Walk to the Mailbox) I suggest neon colors, why you ask, because you will stand out! You want to feel comfortable while you are running so wear something that makes you feel that way.
3. You need to get over your fear of porter potties quick , they are your only option for a rest room and they are not pretty
4. A wave is not something you find in an ocean, it is a scattered start, the number wave you are in corresponds to when you will leave the start line. A wave can also be referred to as a corral. If you do not start in your wave or corral you could potentially be disqualified it depends on the race. Corrals are normally decided by the amount of time you think it will take you to finish the race.
5. If the weather is chilly, bring sweats to put on after your run, you will thank me later
6. Do not forget to stretch after you run, I know you may be excited and forget but you must stretch, no one wants an injury
7. If you feel like you are going to get sick at the finish, well I wouldn’t because there really isn’t anywhere to go, everyone is crowded around the finish area (yea I learned this quick, luckily I did not get sick!)
8. Be prepared to wait in long lines at the bag check, everyone has a bag, there will be a line but I guess that gives you some quality time for stretching (win win)
9. Make Friends! Races are fun, you are going to meet some amazing people in your corrals and after the race. You never know maybe you will meet your next running buddy
10. Smile, it makes the whole process easier
11. Remember you are running this race for you and only you
12. “You don’t have to be fast. But you better be FEARLESS” It does not matter your pace, but make sure you get on that course and give it your all, you only get one shot!

Truth.

I realized it had been quite sometime since I last wrote so I started writing about something I have been keeping a secret but then I decided that I had something more important to write about. THE TRUTH. And the truth is I have gained 12 pounds since I moved to New York. The truth is… it is REALLY hard to stay healthy! I read other health blogs and it blows my mind that a delicious snack is an apple. I wish I could pretend a delicious snack is an apple but I can’t even pretend. In my opinion a delicious snack is a bagel with cream cheese or my beloved oreos. With that said I have to thank the other blogs for motivating me to be better but the truth is IT IS HARD.

Waking up in the morning at 6am is no easy task, believe me when I wake up at 6am it is not pretty. It looks like 10 alarms on my iPhone, some moaning and complaining and finally getting my butt out of bed.

Eating healthy balanced meals is not easy. It is almost another job entirely! If having one job wasn’t enough you have to buy foods only from the outside of the grocery store, stick to the greens (when all you really want are the carbs), and then spend an hour preparing it. Finally by the time you have finished (and this is hoping that you haven’t snacked while making the food) you can eat your meal. But what happens when you get home from work at 10pm and your exhausted and you didn’t have time to prepare a meal?

Working out everyday is hard! When you work 10-12 hours a day and when you finally get home you just want to crash on the couch and watch Gossip Girls (or whatever your guilty pleasure is).

So please know you are NOT ALONE. It is hard and I am far from perfect but I have realized very quickly that even though it is hard you can not let yourself completely go. You have to BALANCE, and this is what made my blog have a complete facelift. I started out talking about the ways to stay healthy but what I need the most help with and I know others do too is Balance.

I have come up with some Truths that help me balance.

Truth #1: It takes time.

You have gained weight, you aren’t happy. The first thing you must realize to get back to your healthy weight or get down to that dress size you always wanted to be it will TAKE TIME. I can not tell you how many times, I thought I could do a program for a couple of weeks and I could get back to where I was only to realize I didn’t and it made me feel worse. A quick fix will never work. Put the time in and take the time and I promise you will be in a better place. I just realized this.

Truth #2: Be accountable.

“I have no idea how those 10 pounds got there.” Yes I have said this. I thought I was eating pretty healthy, I never drink soda, I only eat multi grain bread, and I don’t eat candy so where did I go wrong? I started a food diary and now I can see pretty clearly how I got there. My problem is portions and too many snacks. If you have said to yourself “I have no idea how I got here” start to write down what you eat and you can quickly hold yourself accountable for what and how much you are eating. Some days will be worse but as long as you can write it down you will start to see trends of why some days are worse than others. And when you know what those trends are you can stop it the next time it happens. I have an iPhone and I use MyFitnessPal to keep track but a notebook will also work. The only plus with an online program is they can easily keep track of calories for you.

Truth #3: Start Small.

I always wanted to take on big goals. When I wouldn’t finish a big goal it would leave me defeated and I would sulk back to my couch. Stepping on the scale and seeing that I was 12 pounds heavier I knew it wouldn’t be a quick fix, it would take time, I would need to be patient, and I would need to start small so I wouldn’t be easily defeated. As I accomplish one thing I will move on to the next. I started with going to spinning two times a week, which i successfully did for a month. After reading (and here is my secret) Walk to the Mailbox, I was inspired to start running. For those of you who know me, I am not a fan of running and I HATE TREADMILLS. I feel like a hamster. So I was nervous but I started the couch to 5k program and I have successfully completed 3 weeks and yesterday I ran 20 minutes straight (I promise to write a post just on learning to love…running)! I do have to thank Ashley from A Healthy Happier Bear because every time I posted on Twitter that I completed a week she would tell me to keep up the good work and I was nervous if I didn’t post I would let her down (SO THANK YOU ASHLEY, you have no idea how much the support means).

Truth #4: It’s Hard Work.

It is NOT EASY. Having to put down the oreos and pick up a carrot stick is not easy, its hard. Getting up at 6am so I make sure I make it to the gym that day sucks. There is no singing and dancing only moaning. So I will not sugar coat it for you, it will be hard work, sadly there is no magical pill to get in shape (believe me I looked). It will take work and perseverance,  but you will get through it. I promise you, people who are in great shape and say “they never go to the gym”, are lying to you. So just know going into that you will have to work. If there is no work involved it probably won’t work (sorry to kill your dreams). But its worth it in the end.

So to close and cut myself off before this gets way to long (oh wait it already did), know you are not ALONE. Realize things happen in life you can’t control. It will take time, you must hold yourself accountable, know it will be hard work and start small and then go big. I will be keeping you all updated on my process, the good, the bad, the ugly, and the great. If you want someone to talk to on your own journey email me, tweet me, facebook me I promise I am around. And having support is so important! Until next time, when I write about my new love for running (NEVER thought I would say that).

Where is the Balance?

So it has been an interesting and amazing past couple of months. For those of you who have read my blog, you have probably been wondering where I have been, for those of you who just found my blog, welcome! Back in June I moved into a different division of my company. I moved into experiential marketing or events. To say that I like my job is an understatement. I LOVE my job and could not be happier. I have been a part of some amazing projects including a Target Fashion show and the Lady Gaga Tour. But something happened when I started my new job… I lost my balance. I have come to find out that losing your balance is very easy to do in New York City. In fact it can be very easy to lose your balance anywhere. With my new job came lots of responsibility and my health took a back seat. It was hard to make it to the gym and eat healthy with the long hours and traveling that I was doing. Pretty soon the numbers on the scale started creeping up.

In November I decided that I needed to start writing again and finally in February my site was ready. I wanted my site to reflect what I would be writing about. My focus for my blog will be the journey to find a healthy balance in the City that never sleeps. I know I am not the only one that struggles with balance so I hope I can help others find their balance. I have to thank my fellow health bloggers for inspiring me to start writing again. One blog in particular really inspired to me, it’s called Walk to the Mailbox, it is “a running memoir so that one day, when she can’t walk to the mailbox, she will remember why I joined the 50 States Marathon Club”. The blog is written by Gina and she has decided to run a marathon in all 50 states, her blog is full of funny, real and inspiring stories. If you haven’t read it, I highly suggest reading it from the beginning, certain stories will make you laugh out loud and by the end you will want to start running. I want to run.

To start getting back into a healthy balance I have set a couple of goals. I have always been one for extreme goals.Which I never end up sticking to and when I don’t stick to them I get defeated and give up. So I decided to set a reasonable goal. My first goal is to take two spin classes a week on Tuesday and Thursday mornings and two classes on the weekends for one month. After a month I will assess how I did and take on a new goal. Also to kick off getting back into writing, I have decided to participate in Life After Bagels, Vegan for a Week Challenge. So welcome to my “new” blog. I am glad I can write about my journey on getting back to a healthy balance. Stay tuned for my post on the Vegan for a Week Challenge. Until then!